Last reviewed: 27 September 2026. Laws and procedures change; check current rules before acting.
A first consultation is far more useful when the advocate can see the facts quickly. This checklist works for court marriage, registration and family disputes.
Write a one-page timeline
Dates of marriage, moves, separation, key incidents, earlier complaints or cases, and children's dates of birth. A clear timeline saves time and often reveals the right forum.
Documents to bring
| Matter | Bring |
|---|---|
| Court marriage / registration | Age, ID and address proof for both; any earlier divorce decree; proof of ceremony if already married |
| Divorce / separation | Marriage proof, address history, any notices or court papers, settlement drafts |
| Maintenance | Income proof for both sides, expense statement, children's school and medical bills |
| Custody | Children's school, medical and travel documents; any existing orders |
| Domestic violence / dowry | Medical records, photos, messages, stridhan list, police complaints |
Questions to ask
- Which law and which court or office applies to my situation?
- What are my options, and what does each realistically involve?
- What could go wrong, and what should I avoid doing now?
- How is your fee structured, and which government charges are separate?
- Who will appear for me, and how will you keep me updated?
Red flags
- Guaranteed results or fixed timelines in contested matters.
- Same-day court marriage promises.
- No written fee terms or receipts.
- Pressure to file criminal complaints before understanding the consequences.
Confidentiality
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Disclaimer: This page gives general information about the law and procedure as understood at the time of writing. It is not legal advice for your situation. Requirements may vary depending on the parties' circumstances, applicable law, jurisdiction and the concerned authority, and rules and forms change from time to time. Please consult an advocate before acting.